I was groomed for the American Dream for as far back as my memory takes me. Standardized testing at an early age. Promoting the idea of a college education, a stable career, getting married, buying a house, and having some children. I didn’t grow up wealthy, but I certainly grew up in a home that strived for and achieved the American Dream. My parents got married, worked hard, had two kids and bought a house in a suburb with a highly rated public school system. They nailed it. I have friends who have worked hard and achieved all of these things as well. I’m happy for them, truly. They are wonderful people, and they are living great lives.  But when I take a deeper look at this Dream, I personally see a nightmare.  Continue reading →